I call this the "Dolce Vita Complex" — the Italian man thinks he is simultaneously Marcello Mastroianni and Baby Jesus. I think there isn’t enough sober-morning sex in a city like New York, where the majority of sexual activities in all social and age groups revolve around working hard and partying harder.
(Sorry for the pun.) It goes without saying that "no" indicates "no" in either terminology so if you've put your best feet ahead and she is still not satisfied, stroll away my buddy.Of course there are exceptions (men with their communion and confirmation money still in savings) but many of them won’t see you with an empty glass in your hand. If you want him in new clothes, you must get them for him.