However, if he is more helpful to the girl sitting next to you than he is with you, he is surely trying to get along with that girl too. Sure, outsiders find this attitude of the fake nice guy as friendly.
But, know that you have been trying to start a conversation with this guy all night, and he didn’t even give a shit about it.
She’s the girl whose goodness, will make you feel bad about yourself. To the ones who analyze themselves, wondering what is wrong when you’re only doing your best. And to those people who consider taking on the challenge, this is what you should expect. This is the girl who thrives based on her sensitivity. You’ll look in her eyes and you’ll question if she’s real. If you ever say anything mean, she won’t add to the conversation. She has taught you to see things and see the good in things.
An unkind word will ruin her day, because she doesn’t utter mean words. She’ll overthink these things, and get through it by embracing pain and walking away from it. While you might be livid, for someone treating her badly, she isn’t. More than that, see where you can make things better. Oblivious is a word you can use…She’ll carelessly lives her life as she has, helping others, loving others and seeking good in everyone and everything.
She’s the girl who is nice and that alone intimidates the shit out of people. It just takes a very rare person, who is worthy of being with you. It’ll always be you angrier than her, she feels pain over anger. She’ll walk away with a one liner, that makes you feel guilty and she’ll leave you to think about it. She’s the first to donate money or her time or help anyone in need. You’ll suddenly see things in the world you probably looked past.But the truth is we can get so caught up in trying to not be a certain way that we can’t act natural!