They convince themselves it is better to just fade away.They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? By not addressing the situation, you will often succeed at exactly the thing you want to avoid: hurting someone.If you still judge yourself, they too will judge you too.They will pick up of on your fears, insecurity and judgments and pounce on them. I applaud you for writing in about a dating scenario that is all too often mishandled.
only to find that it was all for WAY less than expected! But let’s face it: sure, it SUCKS, but where are you supposed to find the freaking time for writing dating profiles that attract women?
Every issue that comes to the surface is quickly repressed with an affirmation or two – it’s a positive way of telling yourself to shut up. *note: Affirmations aren’t bad in of themselves just the way most people use them For vulnerability to be an attractive quality there must be a couple things inline: 1. Not being needy and looking to see if it’s OK with her 3.