Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.Do this, and you will not accept less from others than what you can already be and do for yourself.That means no more sacrificing your needs and desires, or being sucked back in by the one who still can’t commit or treat you right, or competing with others as if someone is The Grand Poobah.
The other thing is that people pleasing and perfectionism have already been proven to not work for you—there’s a better, easier way to live and love: becoming more of who you really are by breaking the faux rules you’ve written for your life, confronting your emotional baggage so it’s stops running you, and choosing wellbeing over pleasing.
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Also includes a free 5-day email series that helps you gain clarity around why you've been in unavailable relationships and what it is that you really need and want. Quit forcing you to do stuff that makes you feel utterly rubbish about yourself in the name of ‘winning’ someone or something.
For a start, forcing anything leads to pain and general ickiness.Whatever you read, take it with a grain of salt and reflect on it.