“I’m celibate because I’m trying to figure out what makes me happy.
Your value as a woman, my mum would say, should not be based on your sexual appeal to men.My religious background has not influenced me to believe that one should wait until marriage to have sex but my mum’s words always resonate with me.Now, at the age of 24, I am simply waiting for a guy who values me for who I am.” 2.I wanted to bring you all my ideas and see if you could relate. I don’t know if the fellas would be with me on this one.
I’ve been asked on a couple of occasions by a woman “What would you do if I said I wanted to be celibate? Well, I would usually answer quite honestly and say this: I might give it a shot, but I would probably leave. My honest response wasn’t met with happiness or thankfulness.
A few years ago I decided to take a hiatus from dating to regain focus of my life as a single woman.