My researchers approached this project the same way we had others.First, Beth reviewed the literature and research we had on file.You might wonder what her husband would think if he found out, or if you are married, wonder about your own wife's feelings.One of the hardest parts of having an affair may be ending it.His expertise lies in the field of market research and he applies his scientific skills to educate women with all they need to know about men.When Beth, one of my better researchers, said that men who were averse to commitment were drawn to her like bees to honey, I gave her a copy of the summary report of my research on “why men marry.” The report showed that the primary reason a man asks one woman to marry and not another is that each woman treats him differently.“Had our communication been better, had he felt that he could talk about the things that were bothering him, he wouldn’t have struck up a “friendship” with someone like Ingrid,” she says, “and then it wouldn’t have developed into something more.” Ingrid says Erin is “right on the money,” but Dr.
Although there is no guarantee the woman you were involved with will tell her husband once you end the affair, there is always a chance.If you say, "I think we should end this," however, you may be leaving room for discussion.Unless otherwise indicated, all content is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution License. ” Ingrid continues to justify her actions, saying that “if a gentleman is willing to invite me into it, he is telling me that relationship is not solid.” Ingrid, who’s been married and divorced twice, says she’s “pretty certain” that her husbands cheated on her, though they denied it. “Women can do things to set themselves up to be victimized in this way. So what you need to do is give yourself permission to walk out the door and say ‘I’d rather take the risk of being alone than stay here and be used and abused.’ And then you can begin to forgive yourself for ever being in this to begin with.
Asked how that made her feel, she says, “I took a little ownership of it, meaning something must be missing.” When Erin found out that her husband Alan was cheating on her, she blamed herself, especially because she was busy with work, school, raising their two children, and was exhausted from being pregnant with their third.
“I think married women need a wake-up call,” she says. ” Women should be attentive and plugged into their mate, suggests Dr. “But you know what you need to do if you’re not communicating? After Annique admits that she hangs on to the relationship because she fears being alone, Dr. “You might meet someone wonderful out there, or you might even discover that ‘If I’m going to be alone, I’m not a bad person to do it with.'” Dr.