I can’t go into as much depth as I’d like to in this post, but men and women have different senses of how they’d like to be noticed for things (and what they’d like to be noticed for.) At the root of it, when a man feels like he make a woman happy, he will not want to be in a relationship with her (or if he stays, he will not want to deepen it). Back to neediness: When a woman starts acting needy, especially in the beginning of a relationship, it shows up as the ultimate red flag. Neediness is synonymous with ’emotional dependency’, as in: “This woman is dependent on the guy in order for her to feel good.” Now, sometimes when I start explaining this, I’ll get a comment saying, “Oh so what? You can have it all, too, but what I’m trying to explain in this article is that you don’t get it from it.
The woman's husband, known to be a heavy drinker, turned out to be abusive.He treats you like a queen, compliments your sense of style and tells you all of the things you've been longing to hear from a man.So how do you know this guy's the real deal and not just some womanizer who's going to disappear after your first slumber party?Figuring those out comes down to ascertaining his character.
Does he have a history of cheating, or has he been faithful in past relationships? Everybody knows that women need some extra attention before doing the deed... Even if it seems your guy is the only one who didn’t get the memo, it doesn't have to be a dealbreaker, says couples counselor and psychologist Karla Ivankovich, Ph D, an adjunct professor at the University of Illinois, Springfield. Having a checklist of classic deal breakers may not be your best strategy for ultimately winding up with a winner.