My question relates to photos in both categories: can you provide some guidance on how sexy is too sexy?A good (male, straight) friend of mine in Los Angeles often asks me to look at the OKC profiles of women he is interested in, and I’m often in awe of *just how sexy* some women are comfortable being.Are you a man looking for some naughty fun with an older experienced woman? It's a well known fact that older is better, and the hot GILFs on this site can prove it to you. All the members on this site are genuine and all are looking for someone to have fun with.They all have plenty of experience and will able to show most guys a thing or two.All my bar charts are zeroed on the average picture. One of the first things we noticed when diving into our pool of photos is that men and women have very different approaches to the camera.Now, you’re always told to look happy and make eye contact in social situations, but at least for your online dating photo, that’s just not optimal advice.In the end the right person will accept you for who you are, baggage and all.'Profiles with 100 to 200 words received 10 per cent more messages, and users with positive identifiers such as confident and outgoing, received 23 per cent more incoming messages and 4 per cent more replies to their outgoing ones.'It's encouraging when you see a profile where a man specified books, music and fitness as interests because it makes them appear well rounded,' says online dater Lauren Keith, who is currently dating someone she met on Plenty Of Fish.'It's off-putting when a man only seems interested in going out with his mates and getting drunk.
Men’s photos are most effective when they look away from the camera and In terms of getting new messages, the My Space shot is the single most effective photo type for women.Seeing how commonplace these photos are makes me wonder if I’m too prudish in my own photos.I think every woman would like to appear alluring in her photos, but not necessarily “DTF” or completely narcissistic.Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with being sexy in a photo or two. If sex is used as a lure, understand that men will probably get right to the point and see no need to “play the game.” If anything, it’s a great litmus test.
Even without having the casual sex box checked on my profile, I still received messages from men that made comments about my “hot mouth” or how they have a “curly hair fetish.” They comment on my calves, my legs, etc.I think it also shows that they're actually thinking about what women may want to hear and putting a real effort into their profile.