But as most of us are not in such a luxurious position we need to step more carefully.
You should think before you leap - in particular about how your company would handle a broken relationship in office time.
Certainly lunchtimes take on a whole new meaning and work becomes for a time a delight not a chore. When relationships begin to go wrong you begin by spending an inordinate amount of time questioning yourself, the situation, the other party, your sanity and everything about you. Which means - you are not thinking about the paper work on your desk.
The problem is, what happens when things begin slowly to fall apart. You are able to concentrate even through a category 5 tornado and so you would never be affected but affairs of the heart. Distraction means loss of performance, means loss of control, means possible loss of career. Well maybe yes, if you hate your job and feel you have no career and all your bills are paid then go for it.
Or maybe you are just too busy with work or school.
Just connect with people around you who are looking for a quick hookup.
Related: How To Handle A Hostile Work Environment There are some things you can do so consider your choices.
You have three: you can suck it up and live with it (least desirable option!
Then and once we've identified some problems people that work irregular or odd hours or shift workers may face maybe some solutions.
and now you're not at work and on your off duty those things have to get done.
You're not looking forward to the next shift because perhaps: You don't get to see your friends and family as often as you would like.
In they walk into your office, gorgeous, presentable, sexy and in an instant the drudgery of a lifetime at your workstation has been banished. The fact is, a large minority of people do meet and date through work.
What follows is email flirting, chats over the coffee machine, a quick drink after work and before you know it, your brand new girlfriend or boyfriend is the person working opposite. It is a fact of life and surprisingly natural given that we spend 8 hours or more a day with people we are paid to be with in a building that is either too cold or too hot. Now of course there are plenty of you out there reading this who are currently either seeing someone at work quite happily or have done so with no ill repercussions. But for the grace of God, its all too easy to go the other way.
There’s an art in how to resolve problems at work without creating more problems.