Someone who wouldn't think it's embarrassing to walk around with...
This wasn’t just about the music, but it was a big part of it.
-Because you generally don't know anything about someone's personality, then if you decide to approach someone, then you're approaching them based on asthetics, on how they look, their outfit, their dancing..approach them because you think they're hot. (This whole thing is also just cumbersome for me because I have to be friends with someone to get to know their personality to be all that romantically attracted to them, and I don't like approaching a girl who might have a wretched personality.)-Where I live, most of the goth girls are not in my age range. Most of the attractive goth girls remotely my age are already taken, walking in with their boyfriends, or at the very least are often busy talking to people already.-Let's say I see an attractive goth girl who seems to be alone. You may have to give in a little, and I know it's very uncomfortble..there is just no other way.
Now, this means you don't know if who you're talking to is nice or bitchy, but this also means that if the person you approach has a brain then she probably knows that you're approaching her because you think she's hot. Well, even then approaching her is quite difficult. And you may find you lik e yourself in the style so much that it just becomes natural to you.
I knew metal would always be a big part of my life and I wanted someone to share that with.
Having dated (and married) a metalhead, I would never reconsider this decision (and it a conscious decision).Someone who wouldn't think it's embarrassing to walk around with you, someone who likes you for you.