Now I don’t get messages from the type of man close to my age: 40 to 45 year old men, independent person, warm, social, educated, good looking.
I´ve seen profiles that matched that criteria and I wrote to a few, but without any reply. Do the men, in the range I am looking for, interest themselves in someone my age?
Put another way: a 45 year-old woman shouldn’t have a harder time finding a date than a 20 year-old, because the female-to-male ratios at those ages are equal (roughly 11:9).
Of course, we all know that 45 year-olds do have a much harder time, because the male fixation on youth distorts the dating pool.
Ultimately, I’ll argue that they would be well-served to expand their search upwards, to women in their thirties and forties.
These men see no problem with their lack of integrity. It just sounds like it’s not what you are attracted to or looking for.
In fact, I had a crush on my 7th grade math teacher. What I am looking for on here is to find a woman who would love to be with a younger man.
I just think that older women are mature, and they just look so GOOD!!!
Dear Christine, I started dating a man and we have an amazing connection. I had NEVER considered or imagined I would be drawn to someone so much older. Do I turn away what seems to be my perfect match because of the age gap?
We have endless and effortless conversations about the myriad interests we share, he's hilarious (and he thinks I am too), we share the same values in life, I feel like I can be 100% myself with him. Let me be clear, I'm not drawn to him because he "fathers me." I have a great, solid relationship with my dad and have no issues there.
Pictured below are some single users in their mid-thirties or early forties, taken from the first couple pages of my own local match search.